You either fall in two categories when it comes to dating the person who feels shackled down or the person who wants to give relationships a shot. Now people dating is not easy it is like going to a department store or better yet like venturing in a vintage store, you must go in with the right mind set and willing to decipher through the garbage in order to find your gem.
20 Things you Don’t/Do on a Date:
1-Don’t order a salade. – Do order real food and if you don’t like what’s on the menu tell your guy.
2-Don’t have sex on the first date. – Do wait this could be your future boyfriend or potential husband.
3-Don’t talk about your flaws.- Do feel good in your skin it shows you have great self esteem.
4-Don’t come with your list. – Do go with the flow you never know where the date will end up.
5-Don’t bring along your friend or have your friend meet you. -Do go to a public place you should never go to his home.
6-Don’t talk about your ex. – Do ask why a great guy like you is single.
7-Don’t talk about sex. -Do ask what are your turn ons/off.
8-Don’t talk too much. -Do carry a conversation.
9-Don’t have bad etiquette. -Do act like a lady remember what your mother taught you.
10-Don’t check your messages or cell phone every minute. -Do turn off your phone. It shows your date is the most important person at the moment.
11-Don’t show up too sexy or under dress. -Do dress date appropriate ask your date questions about dress code if unsure.
12-Don’t be self absorb. -Do include your date and make it about “we” and not just “you”.
13-Don’t have such high expectations. -Do have something to offer.
14-Don’t take advantage of your date. -Do order like it was you paying for the date.
15-Don’t kiss on the first date. -Do wait until he initiates the kiss.
16-Don’t be overly aggressive. -Do show confidence but no one likes pushiness.
17-Don’t talk about work excessively. -Do ask how was your day and move on.
18-Don’t show up uninvited. -Do take dating for what it is if he did not call you back please leave it at that.
19-Don’t take yourself too serious. -Do have fun that’s what dating is all about.
20-Don’t just date one person. -Do go on as many dates as possible remember and to laugh.